Women are naturally attracted to men who can keep there attention. Keep her attention long enough, and soon enough she will be fighting for yours.
You know the guy I'm talking about, the guy who is the loudest in the bar. You can't help but to over hear his story about how he saved some little kids life from a pack of wolves. Yes, that guy. Don't be that guy. Instead, be intriguing and interesting. Here are some great men dating advice tips on how you can achieve just that:
Practice your story: This one sounds counter-intuitive and kind of boring, but until you get used to telling stories to her, keep practicing. Make sure your stories don't involve death, religion or politics. These are all big no nos.
Types Of Stories
Instead, tell stories that captivate your personality. So for example if you are a great musician, tell her about the time you met the singer from Motley Crue and how he has truly inspired you to become a musician. Tell her stories where she can feel that you are very passionate about the subject. This includes stories where you were heroic.
Sexual stories. These are by far my favorite. Just make sure the story doesn't involve one about you jerking off to porn in your moms basement. Instead make it playful and fun. I've mastered this to a point where I can tell a completely innocent story, only to have her ask me if its about sex. This is great for accusing her of trying to seduce you or getting sexual with you.
You can even tell stories where it ends in a big joke. Just make sure when you are telling these stories, you do not turn into a talking monkey for her to pull out and laugh at every timeshe gets bored.
How To Tell A Story
Some of the best story tellers in the world are stand up comics. The content of their speech has no value, but the way they deliver it in a slow pace, with purposeful pauses and strong conviction is what should be observed.
Be brief: I have a rule: If I cannot get the reaction I want out of her at least every ten seconds, your story or your delivery has failed and you need to rethink it.
Give a lot of details: This is an obvious one for any story teller. Give details, but make sure to only give details that are necessary to the story. So if your talking about the time you were bare hand fishing for sharks and you tell her that you were doing it with your mother, then you have screwed up. You do not need to mention your mother. This is an unnecessary detail and will only lower you value to women.
Be Visual: Be visual, not only with your hands, but also with your entire body. A good example to watch is Captain Jack Sparrows from Pirates of The Caribbean. He is flamboyant and uses his entire body when he speaks. Don't go over board with this. Only do this when she is starting to lose attention. If you do push this too much, you have a strong chance of looking too desperate to keep her attention.
Last, but not least: Practice Makes Perfect. Practice your stories and the twists in the stories to perfection. The twists in the stories will keep her interest for a long time. She will not know what to expect next out of the story and will keep her intrigued.
Erwin Washington - Mr. Washington showed up drunk three times over the legal limit, not to drive a car, but pilot a flight headed to Chicago with 150 people strapped inside. We here at MensTruth understand that it must be stressful with terrorists strapping bombs to their private areas and you being forced to watch Sandra Bullock's horrible acting in the Proposal, but this is not a reason to put 150 peoples lives at risk so that you don't have to remember the flight.
