There are many reasons that someone might end up "socially challenged". One could be because of the childhood they had, in which there parents did not let them go out to the playground and play with other kids. Another reason might be the lack of confidence. Although there are plenty of reasons why someone could be socially awkward around others, they all say the same thing when you are talking to a set: "Is this guy bothering you ladies?".
This is the worst thing any friend of yours could say to you. This shows clearly that he doesn't think much of you as a friend, and tells the women you are speaking with that you are just a big a loser as your friend for even being his buddy. If this situation has occurred to you, then you know how weird it can get. Take your friend a side and have a talk with him. Do not be condescending like you are some great dating guru. Be honest and let him know that he is one of your good friends and that he made it really weird for him and the women you were talking to back there.
Usually, in the beginning, there is a form of denial..."dude, no way man, they thought it was funny"...then he will most like go into anger...."well, you should have introduced me to them or we would have never gotten into this predicament....then finally and hopefully, there is acceptance and the willingness to learn...."teach me everything!".
When your friend finally gets to this stage you should be ready to teach him some basics. The dos and donts of approaches. Do some practice approaches and show him how its done and show him that it works so that he can have the "AH-HA" moment that you had.
If you are some how unlucky in convincing your buddy to calm his loser act down, then refuse to goto bars and clubs with this person. And if you do, then make sure to tell them not to approach your set because his game is too good for these women to handle it. Tell your sexually frustrated buddy that you are willing to teach him once he admits he is willing to learn.
Erwin Washington - Mr. Washington showed up drunk three times over the legal limit, not to drive a car, but pilot a flight headed to Chicago with 150 people strapped inside. We here at MensTruth understand that it must be stressful with terrorists strapping bombs to their private areas and you being forced to watch Sandra Bullock's horrible acting in the Proposal, but this is not a reason to put 150 peoples lives at risk so that you don't have to remember the flight.
