Sex is a touchy subject for women. So much so, that what you say after sex tends to affect their mood. If you dont want you women to be in tears and asking you why you said something stupid, read this and know the things that you NEVER want to mention or even considering mentioning after sex. Keep your mind clean of these and she won't be asking "What are you thinking about?" after sex.
"You are on the pill, right?"
When she gets upset after a man says this to her, it does not mean she wants to have your children. It only means that she considers sex to be sacred and believe that you would consider having kids with her at some point. One could argue that you really want to know if she was on the pill or not, but this should be done before you even get her into the bed. This has to be done very subtly and if you don't, she will not only get upset with you, but will probably never have sex with you again. Basically, don't make it seem like you are just using her vagina for a night of "sexful" fun.
"You're still here?"
For obvious reasons, don't say this. Cuddling with a girl does not emasculate you.
"I guess you were'nt the worst"
Do not compare her negatively to other women. This will cause her to feel insecure. Lie. Even if she wasn't the best you've had, tell her it was great. One could even blame the man for not being initiative in what you want. You want to tell her what you like and what you want her to do. When it comes to sex, most women are very submissive to what a man wants. She wants her man to feel satisfied and fulfilled. This is even more important to her than her own needs in some cases. Women are very nurturing by nature and want to satisfy you. Just tell her what you want her to do to make you happy.
"What was your name again?"
Asking a woman what her name is after sex is neither good for your cleanliness or her happyness. Guys, before you decide to seduce a woman and bring her back to your place, atleast know her name. Atleast this way, you know how to contact after you test positive. In all seriousness, if you do forget her name, don't ask her for it. You can trick her into telling you by asking "Do you know what your name means? There is this great website that you can check your name on". Show her the computer or pull it up on your phone and give her the phone. After she starts typing look over and see what her name is.
"Lets just be friends"
This line would not only stop you from ever having sex with her, she will tell her friends and you will instantly lose all rapport you have ever built with them. This will kill any ego of her ever having a fantasy about having a relationship with you. It will make her regret having sex with you and you will probably never see her again. If the sex wasn't good, then as men, we need to get good, don't blame it on her.
No matter what you decide to do, the worst thing you can do after sex is not say anything. That will only make it awkward for her and awkward for you.
Erwin Washington - Mr. Washington showed up drunk three times over the legal limit, not to drive a car, but pilot a flight headed to Chicago with 150 people strapped inside. We here at MensTruth understand that it must be stressful with terrorists strapping bombs to their private areas and you being forced to watch Sandra Bullock's horrible acting in the Proposal, but this is not a reason to put 150 peoples lives at risk so that you don't have to remember the flight.
